Trust. #ThoseThreeWords It is overrated.

Trust? Seriously, so it's about trust to allow him meet another girlfriend of his, whose name he doesn't even want to tell me? 
I just wonder how many girls out there are like me, getting all agitated hearing that their boyfriend wish to meet their old friend, a girl, just the two of them? I don't really mind if it's in a group. Get my point? Even my closest guy friends stay away from me to avoid complications and he himself, the boyfriend, is inviting complications. And yes, i'm missing the attention when i was single, but this is commitment. I don't even know if i'm commiting for the someone who really deserves me. So be it. Say that i'm this selfish, ruthless girlfriend that does not wish her boyfriend to go out with any girl 'friend'. But 'that' girl, can't she rasionalise situations and think? I mean like if my guy friends are attached, and even if they are the one initiating a meet up (guys are just plain jerk at times), hell no am i gonna meet them, cause i know how it feels to be in the 'girlfriends' shoes. No matter how much your girl might say she's open-minded and understanding, trust me, in herself, she'll be swearing that slut who agreed on going out with her boyfriend. It's a natural thing, and you can never deny it. The first time it happened it blew my top too, now a second time? 
And the fact that he wants to 'ask' me, puh-lease, having to make plans, there's decision taking place even before 'asking'. 


Sometimes, i just don't understand guys. They say they really don't mind if we wish to go out with another guy in the name of 'friends'. But honestly, what we wish is to have a gentleman who is afraid that that 'friend' might just snatch us away from you without you realising. So tell me about trust. It really doesn't exist for god's sake. And in such situations, it happens for both genders. So an ex is also a friend right? An ex-lover is also a friend right? Oh yes, going out with them would be real fun, who knows things can 'rekindle' again, since the boyfriend doesn't mind and TRUST. :)


Main point is, you don't go around telling me you're going out with just a HER. Yes, 'a', singular, and expect me to be heart-less without any jealousy and trusting, cause trust just don't exist for me for such a context.